Alchemical Love

With Valentine's Day coming we can start to think about what love really is...

**Alchemical Love**

(A twin flame mystical love tutorial)

Alchemy, which is a form of transformation that changes something less valuable into more valuable, can be done with numerous lower energies. "Lower" implies energy of the material, physical third dimension or feelings of lower chakras such as anger, resentment, fear, jealousy, hate, attachment, greed etc. Lifting these up to higher perspectives or chakras will transform them. 

For example, the model of romantic love that our society adopts is one that is mixed up with personal desire, attachment, ego driven personal needs etc. It often also includes empathy, compassion, romance, and the like, which helps it to be tolerable and even enjoyable. But the time is coming when enlightened spiritual beings are not going to be able to exist in love relationships that are impure. That means that we are required to transform this lower form of love into the higher form which consists of unconditional divine love. This releases you and the other person from expectations and the heaviness of lower energies. And it in no way deprives anyone because everyone is connected to the Source of love which is infinitely abundant.

This alchemical transformation of love is essential for twin flames who are the purest, highest spiritual expression of soul mates. They are here to be spiritual warriors exemplifying the true unconditional love of the Divine, first with eachother and then with the whole world. So these lessons cannot be skipped. If there is ego or self motive in a pure loving relationship it will cause distress and inevitably have to come to a head to be understood and transformed. 

**Turning conditional love into unconditional love releases you and others.**

I finally understand that winning for a twin flame means achieving union with their higher self (which yes, brings material union too but that is not the only goal!). I had read this cliche before, and thought I understood it but now I feel it. Because when you align with your inner love, and your higher contentment, peace and creative capacities, then you will create fulfilling unions in this dimension inevitably. But the moment of winning is already achieved in the Now when you are with your Self. You literally cannot go wrong when you are aligned with Divine love. Old erroneous thought patterns cannot remain. 

You may have to draw upon higher dimensional understanding to maintain the unconditional love. For example you cannot maintain fears of lack (eg. regarding time or money, which are common flawed thought patterns) and maintain unconditional love. So a lot of mental patterns will have to be cleaned out in the name of love. But it is pleasurable to release blocks of wrong thought patterns, things which have inhibited you from being truly peaceful. You no longer feel attached to specific outcomes because with your higher dimensional connection firmly established you believe in the infinite abundant creative power of the moment. So you will never be left in the lurch. 

You get to love someone without having to depend on their love. Because you have an infinite Source of love that supplies you. This is a much more pleasant state.

Being a twin or highly spiritual being in a relationship means that you can't stay in a luke warm situation. You're either in heaven or hell most of the time. So hopefully you'll succeed at creating heavenly love on earth.

If you would like a spiritual or twin flame love counseling session email me at Rahmanheals@gmail.com

Rahman Beckwith PsyD. (exp. 2016) is a Holistic Therapist with a degree from Princeton University who integrates therapeutic modalities to address issues of mind, body and spirit. Visit her site, Rahmanheals.blogspot.com to schedule a session.